There are social stigmas to those who are victims of domestic violence, as well as divorce and single parenthood. The shame these stigmas cause may make it difficult for victims to reach out for help. The lack of accurate information about domestic violence coupled with social stigmas leads to victims being blamed for the abuse, which creates additional barriers.
Threats of "outing" the victim - Homophobia is very prevalent. In same-sex relationships the abusive partner will often threaten to expose his or her partner's sexual orientation to people who don't know, which may cause the victim to lose his or her support system, friends, family, job, etc. Homophobia can be highlighted by an abuser to make the victim think no one will believe him or her, domestic violence agencies will not help, or that the abuse is deserved because the victim is lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, or trans-gendered.